Have you ever wondered why hot, gorgeous women prefer average looking men as compared to the chiseled bodied Greek Gods? Has the thought of 'what was she thinking' ever crossed your mind? A lot of my guy friends are always pissed and complaining when guys they never expect end up with women way out of their league or when guys they don't even consider as competition end up with the women they are pursuing.
It made me think whether the friend zone actually exist or are women coming to their senses and actually blowing up the line that differentiates a sweet friend from potential boyfriend material? I'm not against good looking men, but it has been quite evident that gorgeous women consciously choose to be with someone who has average looks as compared to amazing looks. It probably gives them a sense of security that such guys won't attract unwanted attention from others or it could just be that dating a sexy guy is more hard work.
Contrary to popular opinion, I believe good looking guys have a harder time getting quality women as compared to average-looking ones for this very reason.
I've got a lot of feedback from my friends who are dating absolutely gorgeous men who tell me dating such a guy is hard work and it comes with a catch. There are quite a lot of things you should know before dating Mr. Poster Boy.
People would constantly remind you of how lucky you are (which is subtext for how did you trick him into dating you). No matter how smart and confident and pretty you are, people will constantly remind you that he holds the key to the relationship and you are forever indebted because of how hot he is. Hell, you might even convince yourself about it. These guys tend to be public property. People tend to forget boundaries when it comes to such guys. Even your friends might end up telling you how very sexy your guy looks in his latest profile pic or ask you whether you guy looks as sexy without clothes as he does with clothes. Its a given that such questions are not taken as inappropriate when it comes to sexy men.
However the thing to remember about sexy guys are that they're not to be treated differently than normal guys. If you can manage that, you're golden.
As the popular saying goes, even the queen takes a shit.
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